Waikiki Beach Outreach Ministry

One of my very good friends, and someone whom I considered my mentor in my early recommitment to God, wrote me a letter about being single and remarriage that I would like to share here:

GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER BOB today as always, and I'm not sure what this dear sister is seeking ,,,,,,,,,, but it must be GOD first ,,,, and even more so if she is single, and she can build her levels up with the LORD in HOW MUCH SHE SEEKS HIM,,,,,,, AMEN

HALLOWE BE THY NAME,, THY KINGDOM COME, THY HOLY WILL BE DONE

THE BIBLE SAYS THAT JESUS WILL BE HER HUSBAND,,,,,, AMEN

until , and if THE LORD brings you a natural man,,,,,,,,,, AMEN

But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of GOD, one after this manner, and another after that.

I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.

But if they cannot contain, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn.

But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the LORD, how he may please the LORD.

You must first PLEASE GOD,,,,, before you think about a mate........

THE WAY A PERSON LOVES GOD,,,,,,,, is the WAY THEY WILL LOVE THEIR SPOUSE!

There is differnce also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the LORD, that she may be HOLY both in body and in spirit;

but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

How can you every please a husband that GOD gives you,,,,, if you do not please GOD first..........

REMEMBER,,,,,,,,, ONLY A SPIRIT FILLED WOMAN KNOWS HOW TO SUBMIT!!!!!!!

That's why there is so much conflict in marriages,,,,,,,, it's a control issue

And GOD tells us in THE BIBLE that the man is the head of the woman,,,,, AMEN

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as CHRIST is the head of the CHURCH; and he is the saviour of the body.

But most women don't like their husband in control,,,,,,,,,, they want to be

And alot of times the wife tries to save the husband from mistakes, etc, instead of letting him make the mistakes,,,,,,,,,,

the mistakes will MAKE THE HUSBAND fall to his knees !

But so many wives,,,,,,, myself including until i got spirit filled

the women think they are helping,,,,,, and in reality most are making it worse

Most of the time,,,,,, men only pay attention when it comes to money $$$$$$$$

When their wallets are affected,,,,,,,, when they have bad investments,,,

when they can't get ahead no matter what,,,, because everything keeps breaking, and costing them $$$$$$

When he is not listening ,,,,, and not following GOD,,,,, and being disodidant

Alot of times,,, it will be because they are not TITHING,,,

If you follow GODS PLAN and be obidant HE WILL BLESS YOU & YOUR $$$$ increase

Because GOD WILL BLESS WHAT YOU HAVE LEFT when YOU GIVE HIM YOUR FIRST!

the BIBLE is clear about that in MALACHI !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And if a man cannot follow GOD,,,,,,, he does not know how to take care of a woman...............

Most men think if they work 40 hours a week,,,,, they have worked, and when they are off work, it 's all free time,,,,,,,,,,

SIX DAYS shall work be done, but the seventh day is the sabbath of rest, and holy convocation, ye shall do no work therein; it is the sabbath of the LORD in all your dwellings..

can you see this society working 6 days????????????????

GOD IS CLEAR ABOUT US GIVING HIM the first fruits of our PAYCHEKS

Speak unto the children of ISRAEL, and say unto them, When ye be come into the land which i give unto you, and shall reap the harvest thereof , then ye shall bring a sheaf of the firstfruits of your harvesy unto the priest.

How many men think that they must pay their bills first.......??????

YOU MUST PAY GOD FIRST,,,,, and then pay your bills,,,,,,, AMEN

GOD WILL BLESS what is left,,,,,, and make your dollars go ALOT FURTHER THAN ANY OTHER TIME,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

GOD HAS ALWAYS HONORED ME FOR MY GIVING,,,,,,,,,,, AMEN

I can remember even as a small child how I always liked to give and especially when the offering plate came by in the CHURCHES i attended........

THE LOTTIE MOON was always in my mind,,,,, all year long..........

But don't follow GOD and then start reading MALACHI 3: 6 - 12

For I am THE LORD, I CHANGE NOT; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.

Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinanaces, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the LORD OF HOSTS. But ye said, Wherein shall we return?

Will a man rob GOD? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee?

Ye are cursed with a curse; for ye have robbed me even this WHOLE NATION.

Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith THE LORD OF HOSTS, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and POUR you out a BLESSING , that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD OF HOSTS.

And all NATIONS shall CALL YOU BLESSED; for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith

FOR we do not wrestle not against flesh, and blood,but against PRINCIPALITIES, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

Therefore speak in LOVE,,,,,,,,,,, without mallice, without corruption,,,, etc.......

IT TAKES A HUMBLE MAN TO APPOLIGIZE,,,,,,, IT TAKES A HUMBLE MAN TO SAY SORRY even when it's not your falut,,,,,,,,,,

THE ONE WHO IS UNDER A HIGHER AUTHOURITY WILL APPOLIGIZE FIRST !

FATHER FORGIVE THEM ,,,,, for they know not what they do

That CHRIST may dwell IN YOUR HEARTS by faith; that ye being ROOTED and

May be able to comprenhend WITH ALL SAINTS what is the breadth, and length and depth, and height;

And to know THE LOVE OF CHRIST, which PASSETH KNOWLEDGE, that ye might be FILLED WITH ALL THE FULLNESS OF GOD.

IT TAKES A HUMBLE MAN,,,,,,,,, and JESUS WAS HUMBLE,,,,,,,,,, AMEN

Not that I speak in respect of want; for I have learned in whatsoever state I am, therwith to be content.

I can do ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST which STRENGTHENETH me.

But MY GOD SHALL SUPPLY ALL YOUR NEED according to his riches in glory by CHRIST JESUS.

Sometimes GOD HAS TO SUPPLY ME STRENGHT TO NOT lash out in word,,,,, AMEN

But stay in THE SPIRIT,,,,,,, and stand UPON HIS WORD,,,,,,, not mine......

to be carnally minded is death,,, but to be SPIRITUALLY MINDED IS LIFE & PEACE

I CHOOSE TO STAND UPON GODS WORD,,,,,,,, and HAVE PEACE,,, AMEN

For I am no longer living in bondage,,,, I AM FREE

To whom the SON SETS FREE, is FREE INDEED,,,,,,,,,, AMEN